Do you think your child has the potential to become a strong and proactive leader? Still, others might wonder why bother – does it matter if you discover leadership abilities early? Some sources say it does matter. Observing leadership qualities first means parents, teachers, and caregivers can work to develop those talents so they do not fall by the wayside.
If you want to ensure you develop your child’s leadership qualities, here are some signs to watch for. Some of them may surprise you!
Talkative
Does it sometimes drive you crazy that your child talks so much? Being talkative may be a sign of things to come. An intimate nature indicates a child with excellent verbal skills, which is essential for good leaders. Did your child talk early and proficiently? This may be a sign that he or she will be a good leader.
Treats Others with Respect
If you notice that your child seems to end up in responsible positions – team captain, for instance, or band director – and you know he didn’t get that position because of “muscling” his way to the top or bullying others, then this may be a sign of leadership ability. Notice if your child seems to have others “gravitate” toward her and wish to emulate her. Take note as to whether this is due to respectful treatment. If it is, you may have a strong leader in your hands.
Sees Both Sides
Some kids exhibit the ability to understand both sides of an issue. They tend to be peacekeepers, helping two arguing kids to see reason, for instance.
In the Know
Does your child always know what’s going on? Is he or she still aware of the latest happenings at school or in the family? This is not the same as being a gossip (that’s not a good leadership quality), but it does mean that he or she is paying attention and interested in what’s going on with others.
Inquisitive
A good leader is not afraid to ask questions, but he/she is not scared to look for answers on his own. Too much questioning may indicate self-doubt – your child is always trying to make sure about things – but the right questions that spring from a sincere desire to know more about something may be a sign of leadership ability.
Discovering what your child is up to can be a challenge. Fortunately, these tips and signals can give you a window into their world. Don’t miss out on this valuable opportunity to gain insight into your child’s life!
